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How to Know if Surrogacy is Right for You

Updated: Sep 23

Congratulations! By seeking information about surrogacy, you’re already on the right path to becoming a surrogate. Surrogacy is a nuanced and multifaceted journey, and while not every woman can undertake this challenge, many can. If you’re interested in helping others and enjoy the experience of being pregnant, you’re well on your way. However, several important factors will determine your eligibility for this rewarding opportunity. Let’s explore these factors together!


How to Know if Surrogacy is Right for You

Understanding the Surrogacy Journey


It’s crucial to understand that surrogacy is a lengthy process. Even if you meet the requirements set by a surrogacy agency, Intended Parents and fertility physicians often have specific preferences for selecting a surrogate. Don’t let this discourage you; carrying another person’s child is a significant commitment that requires patience, compassion, and resilience.  You may not be a correct fit for one Intended Parent, but a good fit for another.


Now, let’s get into the key medical, psychological, and legal aspects involved in becoming a surrogate. Below, you’ll find a comprehensive list of requirements and procedures to consider. For more information, feel free to reach out to us, you can also click here.


Requirements for Becoming a Surrogate

It is noteworthy that only 1-2 % of all surrogate applicants will qualify to be surrogates.


Age and Experience

Most surrogacy agencies require surrogates to be between 21 and 38 years old. Additionally, you have to have at least one uncomplicated pregnancy to ensure you’re familiar with the physical and emotional aspects of carrying a child. The best predictor of a successful pregnancy and birth are a past one.


Health and BMI

A Body Mass Index (BMI) of 30 or lower is typically required. Higher BMI levels can lead to complications that affect both health and fertility. A high BMI is bad for both mother and baby and hence a lower BMI removes many potential medical complications. The good news is that you can take steps, largely dieting, to achieve a healthy BMI; a high BMI is one of the top reasons surrogate applicants are rejected.


Health and BMI

Medical Screening

Undergoing medical screening is essential to identify any viruses, diseases, or infections that could impact your fertility or pregnancy. This screening will also include drug tests. Be aware that your partner may need to undergo screening for STDs and substance use as well. In addition to blood work for STDs you will also undergo a physical medical exam focusing on your reproductive tract.


Psychological Evaluation

A psychological evaluation is an important step to ensure you’re emotionally prepared for the journey ahead. Intended Parents rely on you to safely carry their child, so emotional strength and a sense of responsibility are critical. Both the agency and the Intended Parents need to feel confident that you are well-suited for this role.


A psychological evaluation might involve both a battery test and a clinical evaluation.  These tests can take up to two hours. Some are done in office and some may be done through a video call.


Legal Considerations

Once the agency verifies your health and emotional readiness, you’ll receive information about the legal aspects of surrogacy. This includes details about compensation, privacy agreements, and your responsibilities as a surrogate.  You will have an attorney appointed to represent you. He or She will be the one to explain to you all the legal aspects of the gestational surrogacy agreement you will sign.


 Legal aspects of surrogacy

Compensation Overview

As a first-time surrogate, you can earn up to $85,000, depending on the specific agreement and your level of experience. If you have prior surrogacy experience, your compensation may be higher. While financial support is a benefit, your primary motivation should be the desire to help others create their families and ensure a positive experience for the intended parents.


It’s advisable to work with your llegal counsel to protect your interests and clarify expectations. Once legal contracts are established and both parties agree to the terms, you will be ready to begin the most exciting phase: the fertility process.


The Fertility Process

During the fertility process, you’ll visit the clinic regularly for blood pressure monitoring, ultrasounds, possible drug testing, and routine check-ups. This phase will be thoroughly explained throughout your qualification steps.


Why Choose Our Agency

At our agency, we pride ourselves on creating excellent opportunities for both surrogates and Intended Parents. Our selection process is meticulous, ensuring that potential surrogates are motivated by the right reasons. The right match between a surrogate and Intended Parents can lead to a deeply fulfilling experience for everyone involved.


If you meet the requirements outlined above and possess the heart, willingness, and desire to assist a couple, or single person, in starting a family, you are just steps away from becoming a surrogate. Please fill out the form click here, for personalized assistance and to begin the prequalification process. 


Best of luck on this transformative journey! Many couples are already grateful for your willingness to take the first step.


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